The Protector


isfj-A / isfj-T

The Protector

ISFJ Introduction

ISFJ MBTI types are generally modest, industrious, and enthusiastic. They are usually concerned with completing a task flawlessly and prefer to work methodically. They are meticulous and methodical, and they will not give up until the work is finished.

What Does ISFJ Stand For?

I. What Does ISFJ Stand For?

ISFJ stands for Introversion, Sensing, Feeling, and Judgement and is one of 16 personality types studied from the MBTI test (Myers-Briggs Type Indicator). The MBTI personality assessment developed by Isabel Briggs Myers, Katharine Cook Briggs, and David Keirsey from the work of psychiatrist Carl G. Jung, the types of psychology based on theories of cognitive functions. Keirsey named ISFJ The Protector/ The Defender because they are very interested in caring, protecting, and helping others in very practical ways and ISFJ is one of the four personality types of The Guardian.

II. Personality Traits of The ISFJ Group

People often describe ISFJs as kind, trustworthy, and considerate individuals who care for others and keep them safe with practical actions. However, their introverted nature makes others misunderstand them.

ISFJs always live in a sympathetic and emotional world. They are very warm and kind, always believe in the best of others. They respect harmony and cooperation, they are also very sensitive to human feelings. ISFJs are considered to be thoughtful and caring people. Their ability to exploit the best of others comes from firmly believing in the best.

ISFJs are gracious, generous, and reliable people. They have many special talents, which show through their sensitivity to people and the ability to make things smooth.

ISFJs are very introverted, so people often have trouble understanding them. They always pay attention and gather a lot of information about people, as well as other important events and situations and remember them. This large scale of information storage is often surprisingly accurate because ISFJs possess the optimal mind to remember important things related to their views on life. Not surprisingly, ISFJs could remember every detail of the facial expression after many years if that strongly impressed them.

As a variation of the Guardian group of Plato and the Proprietaries of Aristotle, ISFJs differ slightly from all the other SJs in every respect. Like all Guardians, they speak concretely (not abstractly) and are willing to cooperate with the realization of common goals. Young people of ISFJ love to learn about business-related issues, are preoccupied with ethical issues, and can work with the equipment, in other words, they have excellent practice skills (unlike NF and NT groups that work by imagination).

They also tend to believe in fate, a little pessimistic and tolerant as if they always protect the gate and keep looking at the past. Others will feel that ISFJs are people they can rely on, who are respectable and compassionate. They doubt about everything, believe in the government, always want themselves to belong to something, seek safety, appreciate a grateful attitude, and want to be in management positions. 

In terms of intellect, ISFJs tend to evolve logically rather than strategically and diplomatically. Furthermore, being friendly and kind people, ISFJs often take on the Protector and Provider roles rather than the rigid managerial roles of Supervisor and Inspector. And due to their quiet and reserved personality, they tend to feel more comfortable in being a Protector than a Provider.

ISFJs are dedicated to their lover and their family and are usually great housemakers. ISFJ women often show their sophistication by making the interior of their home especially attractive with a very traditional look, and they spend their entire time doing housework. They will cook tasty and nutritious meals, shop, do laundry, fix their clothes, and do all the cleaning according to their listed schedule to keep their home clean and tidy. 

Meanwhile, ISFJ men will take charge of doing macro-oriented things to preserve their home such as financial matters, gardening, vehicle maintenance, and when needed, they would also show their ingenuity in duties like repairing, woodworking, engineering, home painting, and the like.

III. The Cognitive Functions of The ISFJ Group

Dominant: Introverted Sensing

This dominant function causes introverts to focus on specific information, details, and facts rather than abstract theories. This also highlights the tradition-oriented trait and trends associated with familiar events of ISFJs. They make decisions and predict possible options based on data and past experience.

Auxiliary: Extraverted Feeling

This function keeps ISFJ focused on developing harmony and social connection. To make it work, they will exhibit externally appropriate and socially beneficial behavioral traits such as being tactful, polite, considerate, and responsive to the needs of others. On the flip side, they will easily trade their own desires for the satisfaction of others.

Tertiary: Introverted Thinking

ISFJs are very planned, well organized, and use logic to understand how the world works. Instead of simply trying to understand a small part of something, they want to see how things fit together and how it works in general.

Inferior: Extraverted Intuition

This unconscious function can help ISFJs focus on abilities and potential even though it is the weakest aspect of personality. This helps to balance the trait that focuses on the present and specific events of the ISFJ personality group, leading to new insights into the issues.

IV. ISFJ Values and Motivations

ISFJ Values and Motivations

1. ISFJ values

ISFJs have clear ideas about what everything will look like, and they strive to achieve it. They often value kindness and safety, abide by laws, and respect customs. They believe in existing methods because they always work, so they never apply new methods when working unless they are introduced to a new method with clear explanations of why it is better than the existing one.

ISFJs prefer to practice rather than reading or applying theories. Therefore, ISFJs rarely work in areas that require analysis of assumptions and concepts. They always appreciate practical applicability and can research a job well when it is instructed on how to apply it to solve problems. Once the method is understood and its importance is realized, ISFJs will be keen on and constantly apply it to complete the task.

ISFJs value maintaining order and harmony in all aspects of life, they are determined, meticulous, and responsible people at work.

ISFJs are people who always uphold their duties and obligations. They take the responsibility seriously and build trust so people rely on them. When they are trusted, they rarely refuse and this can become a burden for them. Because ISFJs always put others' needs above their own, when helping someone they do not want that person to know they are in trouble. 

2. ISFJ Motivations

ISFJs have a profound need to make an impact on the lives of others; they apply this ability wherever they can. Instead of sitting around or waiting for someone to do something, ISFJs are more likely to be the first to implement.

ISFJs want to find useful solutions rather than ideal ones because they are practical people. They thrive for modern ideas and reasonable directions that bring about measurable positive change.

As introverts, ISFJs grow on their own. They like to be alone so that they can relax and think without being interrupted by others. The tranquil solitude can give ISFJs the energy they need to get things done.

ISFJs thrive when working in a structured environment and on a fixed schedule. They are organization-oriented, instead of working perfunctorily and spontaneously.

V. Strengths and Weaknesses of ISFJs

1. ISFJ Strengths

They are good at observing and directing people, not only remember the details of those around them but also are keen to track other people's emotions. 

ISFJs have a special sense of space, organization, and an extremely high aesthetic. They want a comfortable and tidy house. They are very good at the interior. Thanks to this special talent, combined with sensitivity to the feelings and desires of others, they are very good at choosing gifts for others because they can find the appropriate gifts that make the recipient touched and appreciated.

More than any other MBTI personality type, ISFJs perceive their inner feelings very well, as well as the feelings of others. They rarely show them outside but hide inside. If it is a negative emotion, they will repress it, only when things go beyond their limits, the mistakes that others make will become undeniable evidence.

2. ISFJ Weaknesses

Because ISFJs want to hide their emotions, they often create a perfect wall so that other people do not understand what they are thinking. They need to learn how to perceive, evaluate, and express their needs if they don't want to become overwhelmed by requests from others.

Both men and women with the ISFJ personality group trust the rules and rarely question the effectiveness of established processes. Because of their remarkably high accountability, ISFJs often work overtime and end up under pressure from their jobs to be respected. Even though they experience many painful emotions, they still accomplish what they need without a single complaint.

ISFJs are difficult to identify because they are quiet and not active in conversations. Their shyness may be mistaken for stubbornness, their willingness to help is sometimes misunderstood as confrontation.

Without positive feedback or encouragement or when faced with criticism, ISFJs will easily become discouraged and possibly depressed. When they experience great depression or stress, they are often pessimistic and fantasize about how bad things will happen to them. They have strong feelings and an obsession with imperfections.

VI. Personal Relationships of ISFJs

 Personal Relationships of ISFJs

1. Romantic relationship

ISFJs are really responsible and loyal to their lover – especially in times of need. Unload the dishwasher, throw away the trash, and buy tissues when their partner needs it – here's what an ISFJ would be willing to do, all the little things couples do for each other seem small but mean a lot to the other person. They are practical helpers, their love language is the act of service. Many people give and receive love in the same way so when they do something good for their partner, they will highly appreciate receiving favor.

They are so enthusiastic, usually confide with their partner, and often want to own the one they love. If this person is in the Extraversion (E) or IT group, ISFJs should learn to correctly understand their attitudes and should not interpret these attitudes as a denial. Belong to the SJ group, they take behavior according to rules and norms very seriously, the fact that their partner moves away from these rules will make ISFJs upset – the closer the relationship, the higher the level of their confusion. Over time, ISFJs will become more mature and learn to view those actions as harmless eccentricity. Besides, they often spend a lot of time preparing food, buying gifts for the person they love – but because of the Judging (J) trait, they focus on what they think the receiver should have, rather than what he/she wants.

ISFJs care deeply and are strong spiritual support for their partner. They give excellent advice and often prioritize the needs of their partner, and they may tend to avoid conflict for the sake of sarcastic comments. Confronting other people directly makes ISFJs unhappy. Unfortunately, the kindness of ISFJs sometimes attracts toxic people. Their partner may complain a lot but never follow their advice, so they feel that their opinion is taken for granted. ISFJs are also prone to feelings of guilt if they speak out about issues that bother them and are easily discouraged by the constant criticism from their partner. They should remember that no relationship is perfect and excessively sacrificing from one side will lead to an imbalance and ruin their relationship.

2. Friendship

In a relationship, ISFJs are greatly warm, selfless, and loyal. They are not too picky when it comes to friendship, as long as others are willing to make friends with them on a profound level. ISFJs often rely on their friends for emotional support, counseling, and reassurance, which allows both of them to establish a lasting relationship.

One thing worth mentioning, ISFJs may put the needs of friends above their own. This is not necessarily a bad thing (provided that their friends don't take advantage of their altruism), such an approach can cause ISFJ to neglect their needs. ISFJs need a lot of emotional support from friends and if this support doesn't come from the friends they helped, the ISFJs would be very vulnerable.

Moreover, ISFJs often stick to their commitments and do their best to fulfill their promises. This is a significant feature, especially when they don't want to say "no" when their friends ask for help. Some might consider this a weakness and try to take advantage of their goodwill – ISFJs should moderate this feature of them.

ISFJs are introverts and they are not easy to open, however, they need some close friends to discuss important issues. They don't get along well with people with the Thinking (T) and Perception (P) traits, and instead, the FJ groups will match them better. Surprisingly, ISFJs can also have at least an iNtuition (N) type of friends, although they may have difficulty connecting due to the difference between Sensing (S) and iNtuition (N) traits.

In summary, ISFJs attach great importance to personal relationships. They often care and give a lot of love to others and put their needs above their own. They are very devoted, always looking for long-term relationships, and try their best to make sure everything goes well. Besides, ISFJs often find it difficult to turn people down when they come for help, so others take it for granted.

3. Parenthood

ISFJs regard family as the center of their heart. It is not unusual for them to take on the traditional family roles as dedicated and responsible parents. For them, being a parent is no small joy because of the importance and personal responsibility they feel in ensuring that their children grow up healthy, confident, and successful.

From the very beginning, ISFJs' altruism was evident in their approach towards their children, ensuring that they have a safe, stable environment, filled with love, care, and support. In the early years of their children's lives, the patience of ISFJs is very helpful as their child learns to be independent, self-determined, and can test any limits they can find.

However, more independent children often refuse the seemingly overbearing love and support of ISFJ parents. They want to define their own values and make their own choices, and the good intentions of ISFJs can make them feel like every aspect of their life is controlled and directed. At the same time, ISFJ parents must ensure that more dependent children do not take their boundless support and sacrifice for granted.

Parenting isn't easy for any personality type, but ISFJ parents have the advantage of not only being attentive but considerate and accountable in the way they manage that care. Often regarded as ideal parents, they are willing to be with their children and steer them on the right paths, however, they also need to know that their children don't have to be what they expect and they surely have respectable differences.

4. Relationship with other personality groups

ISFJs play a supporting role in interpersonal relationships and can listen to adjust to other people's needs. They are sensitive people and often collaborate to support people and contribute practical information on their personal views. 

For ISTJ, INFJ, ESFJ groups: they have similar characteristics and many things in common so it is easy for ISFJs to share values, interests, and approaches with these groups

For ISTJ, ESFP, ESTJ, ENFJ groups: they have some differences but these differences are attractive to ISFJs. They still have something in common to create a balance in their relationship with each other

For ISTP, INFP, ESTP, ENFP groups: at first, ISFJs may have some difficulty accessing and connecting with these personality groups. However, after interacting for a while, they will discover commonalities as well as other points of view that can complement each other

For INTP, INTJ, ENTJ, ENTP groups: these personality groups are opposite and conflicting with ISFJs, but if it is possible to develop a relationship, this is an opportunity for ISFJs to learn and grow themselves, the challenges always come along with great opportunity.

VII. ISFJ Career Paths and Development Areas

The two traits that help ISFJs orient their careers most accurately are that they are genuinely interested and easily in tune with other people's emotions, and they like to create structures and order. Ideally, ISFJs should choose jobs where they can use their exceptional human observation to identify the needs of others and use their excellent organization to formulate plans and the environments to get what others want. Their outstanding intelligence of space and order also gave them special abilities to put aesthetic minds into practice, such as interior decoration and fashion design.

They pay attention to what they like to do the most, which is to help others in practical and organized ways, tracking, observing, and viewing results. Many ISFJs seek careers in academia, medicine, social work, or counseling, their personality traits also help them shine in administrative and office roles. Their appropriate working environment requires clear and detailed setup procedures. Therefore, they are suitable for the following career fields:

  • Community and Social Services (Health Education, Counselor, Social Worker);
  • Science and Life (Agricultural and Forestry Technician, Environmental Biologist);
  • Health care (Nutritionist, Doctor, Nurse);
  • Education (Teacher, Administrator, Librarian);
  • Office and Administration;
  • Personal care services (Personal trainer, Nanny, Manicurist);
  • Sales and Finance (Financial Advisor, Human Resource Management, Business Management);
  • Technical Maintenance and Repair (Automobile Mechanic, Refrigeration Staff, Electronic);
  • Production (Carpenter, Baker, Quality Control Inspector);
  • Architecture and Engineering;
  • Transport;
  • Police, Bodyguard, Firefighter;
  • The law (Court, Lawyer).

VIII. How ISFJs perform in the work and learning environment

 How ISFJs perform in the work and learning environment

ISFJs are usually discerning students, who often learn best through practical application. To be able to study effectively, they want to understand what is required of them, to be provided with a set of defined procedures, the pace of learning should not be too fast and the learning environment should be noiseless.

At work, as subordinates, ISFJs will get their work done on time, but delays will occur quite often because of the amount of information they receive and when they cannot meet high standards. For example, they tend to write an essay with high readability but don't want others to read what they write when they are not confident with their writing.

As colleagues, people with this personality often enjoy working in a quiet environment and being paired with those with responsibility and precision like them. They cannot bear noisy or chaotic environments. Before they can start to work, everything needs to be arranged in advance, documents need to be marked and separated, their desk office should be neat, and goals should be listed. ISFJs have more difficulty controlling distractions than other personality groups because they find it impossible to get back into their thoughts after being interrupted, they need time alone to be productive and efficient.

As managers, ISFJs tend to be content with working in managed organizations to meet their personal needs while also providing the correct preparation for getting things done. Because they are human-oriented, an ideal job for them should be ones that provide visible benefits.

In general, ISFJs love available directions and procedures. If the process has been completely effective, they will be quite hesitant to adopt any changes. They focus on the present and are not interested in thinking about what might happen in the future. They don't usually favor big-idea people, but exceptions are made when there are clear plans and goals.

ISFJs may not be self-seekers for leadership positions but they may be chosen for that role because of their excellent performance, sense of responsibility, and respect for the rule. ISFJ managers will be sensitive to individual needs, following the organization's policies and procedures, ensuring that work is delivered on time. They also avoid asking others to do things they would neither do.

IX. 10 Things you might not know about ISFJs

1. This is the most popular personality group in the world and accounts for about 9-14% of the world's population. 

2. By gender, only 8% of ISFJs are men and 19% are women. 

3. Among all personality types, ISFJ is the most selfless.

4. ISFJs show that they don't have a sense of humor, but in reality, they not only like jokes but also enjoy gossip that is not authentic or a bit goofy.

5. ISFJs will tailor their behavior depending on the attitude of an individual and how comfortable they are with that person.

6. ISFJs are extremely annoyed at the confrontation.

7. Although ISFJs often delay, they always get work done on time. Their secret is the pressure of the deadlines.

8. ISFJs will be there for everyone even if they don't deserve them.

9. ISFJ men feel pressured to reduce their natural tendencies to act and strengthen masculinity. Others even become extreme by being too competitive, aggressive, and loud-mouthed to prove themselves.

10. Some ISFJs have difficulty moving on with their normal lives after a broken relationship.

X. ISFJ famous people

  • Bess Truman, the wife of President Harry S. Truman and the First Lady of the United States from 1945 to 1953;
  • Jimmy Carter, the 39th president of the United States;
  • William Howard Taft, the 27th president of the United States;
  • Nancy Davis Reagan, the 40th president of the United States;
  • Rosa Parks, an American activist in the civil rights movement;
  • Jerry Seinfeld, an American comedian, actor, writer, and producer;
  • Ed Bradley, an award-winning broadcast journalist on the CBS News;
  • Dr. Dre, an American rapper, record producer, audio engineer, record executive, and entrepreneur;
  • Marcus Aurelius, Roman emperor from 161 to 180 and a Stoic philosopher;
  • Rosa Parks, an American activist in the civil rights movement;
  • Elizabeth II, Queen of the United Kingdom and 15 other Commonwealth realms.